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Thursday, April 18, 2013

​​The Perfect Relationship ​完美的感情/關係​

The Perfect Relationship
If you know how to row a boat, you can row any boat. But if you don’t know how to row, changing boats isn’t going to help.
Similarly, changing a relationship does not solve the issue. Sooner or later, you will be in the same situation in any other relationship.

Most people look elsewhere for a perfect relationship, but few look within themselves;at the place from where we relate. What is your relationship with yourself? Who are you to yourself?
People think, ‘Oh, I’m single. I’m so bored being by myself. I need a companion. I need a relationship.’ If you are so bored by your own company, think how much more boring you must be for someone else. And two people bored with themselves getting together, will completely bore each other!
If your relationship is based on personal need it may not last that long. Once the need is fulfilled, on a physical or on an emotional level, the mind will look for something else and go somewhere else. If your relationship is from a level of sharing, then it can last longer.
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When you’re looking for security, love, and comfort from your partner, you become weak. When you are weak, all the negative emotions come up and you become demanding. Demand destroys love. If we just know this one thing, we can save our love from getting rotten.
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​​It’s the limited awareness of yourself and the limited experience of love that encapsulates you in a tiny compartment where you start suffocating. We can’t even handle the love we are asking for because we have never probed into the depth of our own mind; our own consciousness.


完美的感情/關係

如果你知道如何划船,你就可以划任何的船。但是如果你不知道如何划船,換船隻是沒有用的。
同樣的,轉換一段感情是不能解決問題的。很快的你就會發現你在任何一段感情/關係裡都面對同樣的情況。

很多人往別處尋找一段完美的感情,但是很少人往自己的內在去看;那個我們連接的地方。你和你自己的關係是什麼?對你來說你自己是誰?
人們想,噢我單身,我自己一個人覺得很悶。我需要一個伴。我需要一段感情。但是如果你在自己的陪伴下都那麼悶,想一想那麼對別人來說你會是多麼的悶?而如果兩個對自己感覺到悶的人在一起的話,他們會彼此悶壞對方!
如果你的感情是建立在自己的需要上,那麼這段感情可能就不會長久。當那個需要,無論是在物質上或是在情感上被滿足心智會開始往別處去尋找別的東西。如果你的感情建立在分享上那麼它會長久些。

當你想要從你的伴侶身上找到安全感,愛和舒適,你就會變得軟弱。當你軟弱
,所有負面的情緒就會升起而你變得很苛刻。需求破壞如果我們知道了這一點,我們就可以挽救我們的愛讓它不至於腐朽

對自己有限的覺知和對愛有限的經驗讓你自己封閉在一個小小的空間裡然後你開始覺得窒息。我們甚至不能處理我們所要求的愛因為我們從來都沒有探討自己的心智和​​的深度。

Friday, April 12, 2013

New year on Ugadi 吾伽迪新年



Guruji, Please tell about this
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new year on Ugadi.


Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
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Antarmukhi, sadasukhi: When one is centered, then there is happiness always. This New Year will be good.
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It will always be good,
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always
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evolutionary for the devotee –
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whatever the time and the
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prediction.
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It is time to move to a higher
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dimension. Whatever happens, happens for the good. Chant
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Om Namah Shivay. Meditation is important. Even if one percent of you all meditate, it helps the remaining 99 percent of the
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population.
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This year everyone has to meditate and do satsang.
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The rest of the population will thrive on your
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spirituality.
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This year keep your spiritual goal. The material goals can be kept aside. Meditate, do satsang, read knowledge sheets. By doing that, you are helping others who have a hard time. People eat
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neem leaves and sweets on Ugadi to remind themselves that life is a mixture of both –
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the bitter and the sweet.



​古儒吉,請告訴我們關於這個吾伽迪新年。

古儒吉:​
Antarmukhi, sadasukhi:當一個人處在中心的時候,那時時都會有快樂。這個新年會很好。它會一直很好,虔信者們會繼續進化——在任何的時間和預測中。這是個轉變為更高層面的時候。任何所發生了,是為了好的而發生。唱誦

Om Namah Shivay。靜心很重要。就算你們當中只是有1%的人靜心,它會幫助到其他99%的人口。今年大家都要靜心和唱場。其餘的人口都會在靈性上蓬勃成長。在 今年保持你的靈性目標。物質的目標可以放在一邊。靜心,唱場,閱讀知識。做這些,你可以幫助其他人度過困苦的時候。人們在吾伽迪吃楝樹的葉子和糖果來提醒 自己生命是兩者的結合——苦澀和甜蜜的。

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Make a New Friend Everyday 每一天都交个新朋友

Make a New Friend Everyday

March 25, 2013

(Below is the transcript of Satsang with Sri Sri Ravi Shankar.You can watch the Live webcast of future satsangs)

San Diego, California, USA

(Sri Sri Ravi Shankar at the launch of a special initiative, 'Nonviolence: No Higher Calling' in San Diego, California, on March 25, 2013.)
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We need to live in the space of friendliness.
Just walk into a classroom and ask the kids, ‘How many friends do you have?’
We have to educate our children to be friendly. This is the way to end aggression. Give them a commitment to make one new friend every day, and you will see how their whole attitude changes.
Non-violence needs not be cultivated. It is natural, but today we need to cultivate it because we have moved far away from the tendencies of natural living. Children think they have to be aggressive to be a hero. This concept needs to be changed.
We need to bring back dignity and pride in non-violence. I would say, when we connect with different communities that will create a sense to belongingness. Fear, anxiety and insecurity will drop away from society. Love and compassion will take the front seat. And time has come for that love and compassion, which is the real nature of all of all human beings, to shine forth. We need to move away from the beast nature that has taken over our society.
There is not a single human being devoid of compassion. It is simply hidden. It needs to be brought out.

每一天都交个新朋友
我们需要住在一个友善的空间里。只要走进教室去问那些小朋友,“你有多少位朋友?”我们需要教育我们的孩子成为友善。这是结束侵略行为的方法。和他们做个承诺,让他们每一天都交个新朋友,那么你就会看到他们整个行为的改变。 无暴力是需要被栽培的。它是自然的,但是今天我们却需要去栽培它因为我们已经远离了自然的生活。孩子觉得他们需要有侵略性才能成为英雄。这个概念需要被更改。
我们需要把非暴力的尊严和骄傲带回来。我会说,当我们和不同的社区连结起来那么我们就会制造归属感。恐惧,焦虑和没有安全感会在社会里降低。爱和慈悲就会向前驱动。而爱和慈悲的时间到来了,这是人类的本质,去发出光辉。我们需要远离那些已经占据了我们的社会的兽性性质。没有任何一个人是没有同情心。它纯粹只是被隐藏了。它需要被带出来。